You haven't just moved to Tenerife? Volcanic ash? Refugees from Cumbre Vieja? GOODNESS!!! "Chillin'" indeedy-doo!!
That’s fascinating (the tattoo). Did I miss that the first time? I had a very close friend when I lived in San Francisco back in the 70s-80s. She had one, tiny tattoo, on her ankle, a tiny “8” that you could barely see. She told me she had it done after seeing a Japanese movie, Sandakan No. 8 (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sandakan_No._8) which had moved her so much she simply had to do it. When I finally saw the film I understood.