One answer: Scott Rudin. Except there are tens if not 100s of 1000s of Rudins around and they aren't all males. And yes, it's because we let them and bc THEY DON'T GET THERAPY which is what they need. Maybe us too for allowing it to happen TO US.
BTW, if you saw my note on Kristi K's note...this is what my unpublishable piece was about...you have 11K followers but only 530 claps?!?!? How is that possible??? Even mathematically? What has happened to this place??? Why should anyone have to buy you a coffee? You should be rolling in dough!!!