I, too, get this, wanting to be in touch with your feminine side. But, as a man who grew up, sometimes hard, learning to be a feminist, this (above) sort of thing, in the abstract, makes me get in touch with my masculine side...as in wanting to punch that guy out. I don't know about the "responsibly" part, though. Maybe there's more to it. The"surrender" part makes my skin crawl. But then, there are different types of "surrender," aren't there? You have a touch of sarcasm in you, and I do worship at that altar. Hope you stay healthy.

Possessor of Paul Newman eyes. Author of many things straightforward and strange. Some of them appear here. “Women zai shuo ba” as the Mandarin say. Born 2016.